Three Mothers

I enjoyed Mother’s Day with three of my favorite mothers—my wife, my mother and my mother-in-law. We cooked out burgers and enjoyed a relaxing afternoon visiting on my screen porch.

All three women are so much the same, and yet in other ways they are quite different. While watching these three beautiful women interact with my children yesterday I identified some common traits they each share. I also identified a distinct trait that separates one from the other.

Love, kindness, compassion, and affection are just a few of the specific traits these special mothers have in common. They also share a common devotion to the Lord. I can personally say each mother is a woman of great faith. And, without question, each mother is truly devoted to my children.

The trait I admire most in my wife, Vonda, is that she is INVOLVED. Vonda is totally engaged in the world of my children. She knows their every need, fear, and dreams. She also knows much about their friends, which is critically important to guiding your children in the ways of the Lord. When my children need something they go to their mother first, because they know she can or will try to meet that need even if it means sacrificing her own wants first.

The trait I admire most in my mother-in-law, Doris, is that she is a GIVER. Nana lives so sacrificially for my family and so many others. She willingly gives so much to my family. Every time we visit with Nana she is either bringing something to our house she thinks we need or she is giving us something she wants us to enjoy. I often pray for the same kind of generous spirit she possesses.

The trait I admire most in my mother, Alice, is that she is an ENCOURGAGER. My mother definitely possesses the gift of encouragement. I can go to her with a heavy burden, and in just a few minutes she’s given me a new perspective for the load. She has always been that way. And when I am down or struggling with a decision, I know I can go to my mother for the encouragement and support I need.

I am a blessed man to have these three loving mothers in my life. They set a good example for other women to follow. They set a good example for me to follow.

I am curious, what one trait do you most admire about your mother. I would enjoy reading your comments.